Resentment, the rupture that often starts when things become unequal in relationships and how to rebuild.
Ideals and abandonment around having children I am sure I said it too, my kids will fit around me, it's not going to change me. Certainly I remember organising the first NCT meet up in a pub and latterly a Tapas Bar, I could not bear the thought of all of our buggies like a cliche in another starbucks (besides I don't drink coffee). I was fighting to hold on to me, to not get lost. I loved my baby but I still wanted to be me, I wanted to keep my relationship equal, like m
