
The stakes in couples therapy are so high...I had terrible couples therapy. Now I am the therapist
Entrusting some element your most prized relationship to a stranger is a massive deal, my own rubbish experience of couples therapy meant I decided if I ever worked with couples I would offer something different and that drives me still. If I see a couple that love each other or can evoke clearly the memory of when they did love each other deeply even though they may feel hopeless at this point in time, I have the chink of light I need to work with. Sometimes there are patte