Resentment, the rupture that often starts when things become unequal in relationships and how to rebuild.
Ideals and abandonment around having children I am sure I said it too, my kids will fit around me, it's not going to change me. Certainly I remember organising the first NCT meet up in a pub and latterly a Tapas Bar, I could not bear the thought of all of our buggies like a cliche in another starbucks (besides I don't drink coffee). I was fighting to hold on to me, to not get lost. I loved my baby but I still wanted to be me, I wanted to keep my relationship equal, like m
A podcast with a video so you can get a sense of who I am and how I work
I like to get a flavour of who people are and I believe in reciprocity, so this is a way for you to get a flavour of me and who I am and...
The stakes in couples therapy are so high...I had terrible couples therapy. Now I am the therapist
Entrusting some element your most prized relationship to a stranger is a massive deal, my own rubbish experience of couples therapy meant...
Tell me your love story?
It's how relationships begin, it might be a friendship that evolves, a grand passion, love at first sight, a shared look, you might work...
An open letter to my clients current and departed
15th May 2021 Yes, I think of you long after our session or work has finished. I grieve for the sadness and conflict you endure and I...
Managing the bumps in the road and holding on to the sexual spark
Sex in long term relationships is that thing that gets lots of attention, is it avoided, is it enjoyed, is romance and sexuality shared...
Thank god we now have people talking about sex openly and honestly
It feels a little crazy the amount of people I meet who say their previous therapist couldn't really talk about sex. For me it's in the...
Why I walk with my clients...
“From my perspective, the reason walking therapy is more beneficial for me is that it allows me to think and talk to a flow and a rhythm. I
Sheryl Sandberg, loss, and joy
This desert island disc where Sheryl Sandberg talks about the loss of her husband and her viewpoints on life, love, friendship, family,...
"You will not have my hate"
"I'm suffering without hate"
