Sex in long term relationships is that thing that gets lots of attention, is it avoided, is it enjoyed, is romance and sexuality shared to heighten novelty, or does a couple work on creating novelty within. Feeling desired is an important balance that can flip between an obligation and a demand and embracing the delight of still knowing you are sexy and it is a pleasure you still share. This story felt worth sharing because it marries the difficulties and pleasure of relationship.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/series/how-we-stay-together